Dating Christian Women - What to do During the Dating Process

Okay, you might be wondering about my last post. I stated that you should not romance a women when you are in the dating process. This is true because you are not in a relationship.

So, what do you do during this time?

Most importantly, be friends with the women first. It should be your main goal. Not how to get in a relationship with them. In fact, you should be forming friendships with every girl you meet, and not looking to get into a romantic relationship. Once you are in a friendship, maybe God will turn the "lights on", and you can move forward towards a relationship.

Being friends first makes the relationship stable, healthy, and more likely to last because you are first friends.

Also, you are able to see the kind of person the women truly is if you are just friends. You can see how they act with their friends, family, and most importantly God.

Are they reading the Bible? If not, why? Is this important to you? If you want a Godly women, it should be.

Are they living out their faith in everyday life? Are they loving to others? Caring? Selfless? Slow to anger? Abounding in love? If not, why?

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What if the women you are attracting is not the kind of person you want. Why is that?

Many times, without even knowing it, we attract people that are like us, whether good or bad.

If the women you attract are not Godly, maybe you need to take a look at yourself.
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Being friends it great because you can see how they act under stress, under joy, under pain, and see the kind of person they truly are.

After a time, and with God's leading, you may show, more than friends, signs of interest. Remember, this is not romancing, at least in the Hollywood sense, but more on this later.

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